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Essay: Write a 3-part assertive statement to a teacher who falsely accused you of turning in your homework late. Student Answer: Describe the behavior: "I've noticed that you've been making plans with me but then cancel at the last minute."
Express how it affects you: "It’s really frustrating because I set aside time to see you, and it feels like my time isn’t being valued."
State what you need: "I’d appreciate it if you could let me know earlier if something comes up or only make plans when you’re sure you can stick to them." |
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Essay: Write a 3-part assertive statement to a friend who keeps making plans with you and then cancelling at the last minute. Student Answer: Describe the situation: "I've noticed that lately, we make plans to hang out, but you cancel at the last minute."
Express how it makes you feel: "It makes me feel disappointed and unimportant when that happens because I look forward to spending time with you."
State your need or request: "I’d really appreciate it if you could let me know in advance if something changes, or maybe we can plan when you're sure you’ll be available." |
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Essay: When you choose to be assertive, you won't always get everything you want. With that in mind, why should you still choose to communicate assertively? Provide two reasons. Student Answer: Respect and clarity: Assertive communication helps you express your thoughts and needs clearly while respecting the other person. This reduces misunderstandings and fosters healthier, more respectful relationships.
Building self-confidence: By communicating assertively, you reinforce your own self-worth and boundaries. It promotes confidence, reduces resentment, and empowers you to stand up for yourself in a constructive way. |
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